Weaving a Tapestry of Life by Monica Gelinas

CC4C
Oct 9
3 min read

What happens when life prepares you for something you never expected? For me—mom of quadruplets, caregiver, life coach, and now Executive Director of CC4C—this question unfolded through my family's journey with my niece’s rare condition. In a recent podcast conversation, I shared how I learned how to transform challenges into strengths, emphasizing the profound impact of simply listening and being present. I wanted to highlight the essence of emotional resilience birthed in the crucible of adversity and the powerful role of community support—a message I hope that resonates deeply with others.

I reflected on my journey of walking alongside Talaya through Cheyanna’s mysterious and painful condition, while I was also raising four children as a single mom and building a coaching practice. I shared practical “gratitude hacks” to illuminate how to navigate from anxiety to peace, acting as a guiding light for those facing uncertainty. I realize so many of us may be supporting a loved one through a crisis or grappling with our own worries. I shared my journey with the hope of inspiring others to find perspective, peace, and purpose.

This podcast experience led me to an all encompassing bigger picture of my life. During a recent home project, I stumbled upon a tapestry blanket—a gift given to me when my quadruplets were born. Turning it over, I noticed the chaotic and tangled backside, seemingly not fit for display. Yet, when flipped, a beautiful image emerged, a profound metaphor for life itself.

Throughout my youth, I was intricately weaving my tapestry—balancing the roles of teacher and mother while imbuing my children with a foundation of faith, love, and support. Little did I realize the complexities of this tapestry forming in the background, shaping my every choice—every joy, sorrow, victory, and defeat. Each experience added unique colors to my life, at times seeming like a tangled web, while at others, revealing a clearer pattern.

Now, with the wisdom that comes with age, I can see the picture evolve even more clearly. Perhaps it’s the gift of stepping back from the "trenches" of parenthood or the conscious effort to slow down and appreciate the journey. I witness my adult children thriving, each identifying their own “golden thread” of victory within their unique tapestries. My home—a joyous hub for my husband and the connection points we experience with the children we serve at CC4C—stands as a testament to love and purpose. This blend of resilience and hope echoes in my own life's tapestry.

As I gain clarity in recognizing these intricate threads, I often ponder what my tapestry would look like had I approached life with this awareness from younger days. However, I trust that when my journey on this Earth concludes, the full tapestry will reveal a story of hope, comfort, and encouragement. It is my sincere hope that my life narrative reflects the glory and grace of the One who is the author and Creator of all.

“Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith…” – Hebrews 12:2

Don't let the tangled "backside" of your challenges obscure the beautiful picture that's forming.

Listen and Be Present: Embrace the profound impact of simply listening and being present in your own life and for others.
Find Your Peace: Learn from Monica's example and put her practical "gratitude hacks" to use to find peace when facing uncertainty or supporting a loved one through a crisis.
Share the Hope: Reflect on the intricate threads of your own tapestry and share your story to inspire hope and uplift others.

To hear more about Monica's journey from "quad mom to rare disease advocate" and her insights on resilience, listen to her recent podcast conversation here: